Prata Castle
缅中缅
My Mixed Vege Rice
New Hairstyle(Yandao)
Dinner( Rojak)
Woke up at 1145am to go swimming with Tai&HongWei. Rushed to SengKang bus stop, waited for HongWei to come. Waited for 10min, so decided to give him a call n realised he's still at home. So i told him im at the bus stop waiting for him, ended up he told me he didnt wanna go, so i left there alone to find Tai. Felt damn sianx duh, but what to do, so went to Downtown east by myself to find Tai, and Tai reached there around 1145am, if never wait for HongWei i can reach around 1215pm lidat, but ended up i reached around 1240pm. Tai was damn funny too, he bought this grape tea, when i drank it it was so sour la. Ended up i realised he didnt put syrup at all, i was laughing like siao.
Reached Downtown east around 1pm, then we started swimming and stuff lidat. When we walked to the pool, Tai asked me where's the toilet cuz he need to change. Ended up we exit downtown east to go toilet and change then went all the way back up again. We swam few laps but spent most of the time discussing bout current economic and stuff lidat. About the credit crunch and liquidity threat, move on from Morgan Stanley to Ford selling off their stake in Mazda. Discussing bout Singapore policy, whether Singapore Bank will be affected or not.
After our swim, went to the foodcourt to have our lunch. He ordered this Noodle with chicken cutlet, looks damn nice but quite expensive, $4.20. I ordered curry vegetable/chicken and another dish which cost me $3.30. After our lunch went to buy Ice Kachang and started sharing it. After that he asked whether wanna go Tampines Mall with him, so i decided to go with him to take a look lo, he wanna repair his Mac G-4 btw. Postpone tuition to a later time, but ended up Kenneth cancel tuition. So, Tai and i walk around Tampines mall after settling his Mac thingy. Initially was just walking around aimlessly, but after awhile we started to shop for clothings.
We went every where, from top floor to first floor and even went to Isentan. Ended up nothing much to shop, all the shops seem to have closed down. Damn sad, last time during sec school, we always go there to shop. Eventually, we ended up at Giodano and saw this limited Edition Tee. So Tai went to try their S size and M size, while i try another Tee-shirt. The shirt is nice la, but Tai say i look damn gay in it so i put the shirt back. Tai's shirt look damn nice, but too bad M size is out of stock. S size do fit him, but i felt that its not very nice, fitting alone doesnt mean anything must look nice also ma.
After awhile, we started talking bout Genting trip and stuff lidat. Going Taiwan and oversea, sadly, he told me that if he's going Taiwan or other places, the first person that comes into his mind will be Gifford they all. Come to think of it also quite true la, Gifford they all more happening, everything also will go try wan, everything also will play and stuff lidat. For us, lets say if we go out, normally also only he and I then if i follow his cousin they all, quite weird also. I told him bout how i feel, and the way i think how his friends will feel and he told me it's true also. As in, weird if i go along and stuff lidat.
So quite sad la, cuz usually, let's say if i wanna go oversea, or go clubbing the first person i think of normally will be him. Like Secondary until now, went oversea together with Mong when we were 16yrs old. Spend all our Secondary life in Arcade together, if not will be playing lan together. Even taught him how to play basketball, then spend most of our time at Temasek JC playing basketball with JC people, if not playing at my Blk there together with YongHai, Kok and Teck. Some times still will go Kbox with them, then go back play basketball again. I dont know whether am i sad cuz i'm not on his mind(as friends) when going oversea or cuz we have drifted in a way or so.
Come to think of it, friend do drift apart if, after a long time didnt meet up and stuff lidat. But what if people doesnt make an affort to maintain the friendship? Sometimes i got think of it this way, for example, whenever im free and stuff lidat, i will ask this person out, what if i sudden-ly stopped asking him out, will he ask me out when he's free? Most of the time the answer is no i guess..
There's people who got new group of friends, started comparing between their new friends and old friends, at times even pass crude comment like "i know them for months only n i felt they are closer to me than those i know for years", some part of it might be true, but that doesnt mean they can discard this friendship and go with this so call new group of friends. Obviously they can la, but i just felt that it's wrong ba. Some friends who are bother to help celebrate another friend's birthday n to throw a surprise party, this is to show that as friends we actually do care. But those people who enjoy the privilege, treat it as a entitlement and take it for granted. Not say i wanna say names and stuff lidat.
Some times, i know i didnt need to do things lidat. But there's this person who once told me this, "if i don't put in the effort to bind the family together, everyone will be doing their own things and this family will be apart." The point is, friends are like families. That's why, i came out with my own principal of detesting people who backstab and people who pang seh. Backstab and gossip are seperated by a thin layer of paper, nevertheless, it's difficult to differentiate between backstab and gossip, so i came out with my own definition of backstab and stick to the meaning. Backstab is unavoidable, but the thing i hated the most is Pang seh. Dont know since when i develop this habit of hating people who pang seh, either due to HanWan if not maybe Kelvin. I had to admit, i'm a very petty guy, petty as in if the person try to be 初一 i will be 十五.
Of course this apply to Pang seh situation only, cuz i treasure friendship and i feeling that pang seh is an act of betraying this trust. So i don't care how other people thinks, and whatever it is, this is how i feel n thinks. Also dont know why suddenly think of stuff lidat, perhaps, just quite depress over it.
I had a friend from police, who is a very nice guy. He bothers to call everyone out find supper and stuff lidat and to bind this friendship together tightly. I dont know whether did he ask for any returns, but in my point of view i dare say he doesnt, if an act of kindness or act of appreciation i believe it's more than enough to make him feel touched.
