we went to yw's grandma's wake.
among the teenagers, it wasnt as solemn as it seems.
as in, i dont know, i thought funeral should be solemn.
never really being to one, so i dont know how issit like.
The table i'm seated, they are talking bout cold jokes.
if not, like, going up to one of the cousin's house cuz cooler.
Or wanna go up and nua & stuff lidat.
If not bringing lap top to watch movie.
I dont know, i just thought it was inappropriate.
But yw said, the grandma like noises and laughter.
So it will be better, so her grandma will be happier.
My personal perspective, is somehow different of course.
I believed it's a form of respect you have for some one else.
You respect the person, you dont joke & laugh.
Probably, you dont need to cry or shout in despair.
All in all, it's the attitude and behaviour that matters.
